"A Love Note to the Dreamers: Soil & Ether Awakens."
Hi love,
I hope — truly — that you are at peace with what is right now.
Because when we resist what’s happening, telling ourselves it should be different, it’s like fighting reality... and reality usually wins (and it’s not a graceful loss, either).
But wait—
What even is reality?
Is it what the majority believes?
Is it what the news blares at you?
Is it what history books printed fifty years ago?
Is it what your grandmother swore to you over a pot of boiling stew?
Is it what your boss declares with so much confidence that you momentarily forget you have a brain of your own?
Is reality even out there at all — or is it something that happens through you?
There was a time in my life — a long season, really — when it felt like my thoughts were thinking me.
I was walking around in a kind of amnesia, disconnected, living inside a version of reality I never actually agreed to, but somehow inherited.
Back then, “truth” meant whatever everyone around me was living. Reality was the collective agreement: the mass consensus, the ancestral stories, the Sunday lectures from family, the firm words of authority figures.
(And heaven forbid you questioned it — you’d be called a dreamer, a rebel, or worse, “unrealistic.")
Oh, and let’s not forget the classic:
“You can’t have it all.”
Translation: “Don’t even bother wanting too much — you’ll just end up disappointed.”
So I lived inside that borrowed version of life for a while, doing my best, until little cracks began to appear...
Moments of questioning. Tiny awakenings.
And then 2024 arrived like a cosmic wrecking ball (the sacred kind, not the chaotic one) and nothing could stay the same.
"Reality leaves a lot to the imagination."
— John Lennon
In high school, imagination was my survival tool.
I was a chronic daydreamer — professional, even. (If it had been an Olympic sport, I’d have medaled.)
I would escape into future worlds where I felt safe, seen, and alive.
And here’s the wild part:
So many of those daydreams actually became my reality.
That made me wonder: was it just luck?
Or was there something deeper at play?
Daydreaming & Reality: A Love Story
After years of untangling my own programming (and wow, what a playlist of old stories I had running in my mind), I realized something that changed everything:
Thoughts become things.
And thoughts are born from beliefs.
And beliefs are just thoughts you kept thinking over and over until you forgot you made them up.
When I understood that, a new question opened up:
How do I think deliberately?
How do I choose thoughts that create the reality I actually want to live?
Because here’s the golden truth:
Reality is nothing more than what you think, consciously or unconsciously, every day.
When you become aware of your thoughts, when you actually notice the feeling behind them, the belief hiding inside — that’s when you get to choose.
Does this thought feel expansive?
Does it taste like freedom, love, possibility?
If yes, linger there. Savor it. Feed it like a delicious fire you want to grow.
If not, thank it for trying to protect you in the past, and lovingly choose a new one.
(Not by bulldozing over it with fake positivity, but by gently offering yourself a different lens.)
That’s how you rewire your brain.
That’s how new neural pathways are born.
That’s how you, quite literally, build a new world for yourself from the inside out.
Why Do So Many People Stay in Unwanted Realities?
It’s not because they’re broken.
It’s not because they’re doomed.
It’s usually because:
They don’t know the power is inside them.
They’re hyper-focused on what everyone else is doing.
They’re lazy focusers (no shame, just honesty — focusing is a skill, not a personality trait).
They secretly believe that something “out there” will come to save them.
But the truth is — and it’s both liberating and terrifying — no one’s coming to save you.
You’re the one you’ve been waiting for.
So, What Is Reality (And How Do You Daydream Consciously?)
Reality is just a choice of focus.
There’s no one-size-fits-all version.
There’s no universal truth that fits every soul.
The real question isn’t, What’s real?
It’s from where am I creating my reality?
If you believe you’re just passing time until you earn a ticket to some heaven after death, you’ll treat this Earth like a waiting room.
But if you remember — really remember — that you are a fractal of God itself,
Then you’ll start daydreaming not to escape reality, but to create it.
The world you experience isn’t waiting to change for you.
It’s mirroring you.
It’s reflecting your frequency back at you with stunning accuracy.
(Not to punish you — to invite you.)
You change your reality by changing your thoughts.
You change your thoughts by choosing them.
You choose them by knowing you can.
I live it every single day, sometimes I forget, but the truth of what I know now quickly brings me back.
I am in love with life because I decided to be.
And because I chose it, it chose me right back.
This is the magic we all forget.
